There is a way to stay ahead of the game when it comes to getting to understand the opposite sex. To know the sign you’re dealing with. I know this may sound corny. Going back to that old line “So umm what’s you’re sign? “. But if you knew the science of the Zodiac you would probably think different. I’m not going to preach about the whole science of it but I will give you a basic list and category list to use when using this method.

Fire

·      Aries

 

·      Leo

 

·      Sagittarius

 

Air

·      Libra

 

·      Aquarius

 

·      Gemini

 

Earth

·      Taurus

 

·      Virgo

 

·      Capricorn

 

Water

·      Cancer

 

·      Pisces

 

·      Scorpio

There are certain traits each sign is known for. For example, Fire is considered forceful and restless; Whereas Sagittarians are supposedly friendly & generous. What I will show you is a much easier way to figure someone out.

 

        First of all just use common sense. What happens when you put water on fire?  “Burnout” So that’s not going to work right? Wrong. Although with most people this would be true, there are certain factors to look into like. What date there birthday lies on. Sometimes a person might be mixed with another sign that is compatible to yours or in simpler terms, what kind of background is this person from? Considering this would be how you make a decision on long term or short term relations with this person.

 

        Backgrounds are very important even if you are in a compatible category. For example, let’s say you have the signs Cancer & Taurus which is suppose to be compatible but the two are from two different worlds. The Cancer may be raised to watch what they do in life and don’t allow any one to take advantage of them. That would be what everybody would probably hear as they grow up.

 

        A Cancer would take that to a whole new level of suppressing there feelings. Being that most Cancers have big egos, men and women, they would probably end up hurting the Taurus or limit the relationship to just friends after a while to avoid being hurt. On the other hand if the Cancer is Open minded and doesn’t let his or her friends fuel up there ego, they act from their gut. They would probably have a very fulfilling relationship, possibly pushing for love too quickly.  

 

        A Taurus would also have to watch their friends and family, involving he said she said, or how a situation might look to others, because they have a tendency of giving there all like a cancer when they fall in love. They would need a very balanced up bringing. Taurus is liable to hurt the person they’re with, like the Cancer they are very emotional and with emotions comes love or the direct opposite, anger or rage. The Taurus would watch this more because they are quicker to react when a Cancer would have to be pushed a little more to get to that point.

 

        What you should look for is a sign that would add character to yours. This is when the signs come into play. If you say to yourself, I like to be homebound and watch DVD’s & T.V, but you’re looking for a change you would probably go looking for a well grounded Airor Fire sign. They usually love partying and going out. If you’re the opposite and your looking to calm down and spend time with someone in the comfort of your home you would probably want to lean towards aWater or Earth sign. Don’t forget if you do your homework you can get both, a balance of outgoing as well as a person who knows how to just relax at home. On the other hand with some people depending on how they were raised or the kind of friends they are influenced by, you might just want a fling for the short time, and it wouldn’t matter.

 

        Now do not become confused with how this works. Don’t think because you meet someone that is the same sign that it’s all good because they are just like you. If you believe this you are in for a rude awakening. Like everything in life there must be balance of all things bad & good right! Well it’s the same with people and their signs & personality.

 

        Here we have an example. Aries & Aries both fires which probably would mean obviously “BOOM” right well, very much so in the bedroom but after that comes compromising. Well what’s going to happen when both people want their way and there’s no Air to calm the fire and get between to compromise. Or even a little Water to put out a situation and keep things calm. Now usually in relationships the opposite would be Air. Air signs do know how to talk to fire, and if the fire gets too rough they know how to blow a forceful tornado on that fire. Unlike water signs if they’re a friend they might listen but if they are in a relationship it could turn to throwing an ounce of water in a volcano. Like I said if a person is brought up a certain way and train their self to know their weaknesses they could overcome their weakness and get over any sign they come across.  Unless you have patience with people or just the psychology of people, it would take a little work to master.

 

        Now let me show you some rare cases with same sign love, now you know too much fire is probably not a good idea.  What about Water? “I see a flood!” a flood of emotions. The plus is that there would be a lot of hugging & kissing and possibly making people sick of seeing them always together, but one day somebody’s going to want some space, which is good but we are talking about a sign that is use to waiting to get hurt. They may see “time out” as “time to move on”, if there is not solid communication, depending on which water sign. They may say it with a feeling of “I have to run” but doesn’t mean it to sound that way. Usually the other water already has their mind set and on that so called time out they would have probably have done things with other people to secure their feelings. Just so they feel when the other water turns the time out to terminate, they would have protected their heart. This would be a sort of revenge for the water sign for terminating something so special to them, and when they do come back the relationship is tainted with the fact of cheating or wondering what the other person did while they were apart.

 

        With other signs like Air & Fire the water will know from the beginning that there will be times when their lover will not be around and there will be compromising from the beginning and this is what I call balance. Speaking of balance, I must say the sign that would be most able to work any sign after they learn their weakness, is an Earth sign they are pretty much the most understanding of all the signs.  I can’t say they will have love with any sign but they would probably be the easiest sign to hang around no matter what sign you are.

 

        Although some may come across as stubborn, they probably would be most likely to have a number of lovers at one time, if they aren’t ready to settle down. The down side is that there are different characteristics to the three earth signs, which would separate them individually as far as the earth sign being truly happy in love. So again you must do your homework on there background.

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